“The Personality of a human is perceived as the combination of qualities and attributes which have immense contribution to the person’s character and image.“
It arises from within and develops us as who we are. The personality of an individual cannot be separated from the person and determined by his/her appearance, attitude, education, values, behavior, etc.Personality development can be defined as the process of developing a set of characteristics and traits in a human which contributes to the overall personality of the person.
Personality development can often be confused with modifying how you dress or just gaining fluency over English language. But as a matter of fact, A person who dresses well and speaks proficient English doesn’t necessarily have a good personality.
So, here are few tips on how to develop an excellent personality:-
1.)BUILD CONFIDENCE IN YOU
Confidence is certainly the most crucial aspect of a good personality. A person’s confidence might stoop down due to failure, rebukes, mistakes or guilt. Many a times, people can develop inferiority complex due to their physical appearance, financial status, dressing sense, etc.
Such people comprehend confidence as their weakness unfortunately, while the actuality is that confidence is an individual’s biggest strength.
Your confidence reflects your character, attitude and passion, in short it depicts what you are. You should be very confident about who you are and whatever you do, though not overconfident.
Being confident and walk with your head held high would help you to express yourself and stand amongst the cruel crowd.
2.)ENHANCE YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILLS
Along with confidence, one should always be great at communicating. Even if you are not fluent in English, you must confident with your words. Be polite and gentle with your listeners and attract them with your bodily and facial gestures accompanying your speech.
Well, English being globally accepted is preferred everywhere you go. So, essentially you must work on your English proficiency and fluency by listening to English news, reading English newspapers and magazines.
Always, remember to analyse your audience and interact with them in a way they prefer to listen.
3.)MODIFY YOUR DRESSING SENSE
Dressing sense refers to the general way dressing -up for office, party or any other occasion. A person should always wear according to the circumstances, keeping in mind what attire suits him/her.
For example: you can’t wear a gaudy orange kurti with heavy work to your interview. Though good looks add to your personality but what matters the most is how you are actually dressed up, good or bad. Sometimes a subtle make up is enough for you to look perfect.
Even a 5’2 guy with a dark complexion can have an amazing personality if he knows how to carry himself, wherever he goes. Thus, Dressing sense plays a crucial role in personality and confidence development.
4.)WORK ON YOUR BODY LANGUAGE
Body language plays an essential role in judging someone’s personality. You might not pay heed, but sometimes if your body language does not match your words, it might pull down your impression in front of people. Make use of positive gestures while interacting with your listener.
This depicts that you’re at ease while having a discussion and welcome all of their appreciations or negations. Studies have shown that 75% of our communication happens non-verbally. So, with your communication skills, don’t forget to concentrate on body language also.
5.)DEVELOP LEADERSHIP SKILLS
A good leader is believed to have an excellent personality, which provokes people to trust the person and follow his guidance invariably. Leadership skills do not mean how well you order to your subordinates.
It means how well you understand them, walk in their shows and guide them through the path. Work harder so as to set an example for your subordinates and your followers. Be ethical. Express yourself positively and try to walk your talk.
6.)LEARN TO BE A DILIGENT LEARNER
Good learning skills in any individual are highly desirable and considered wherever you go for work. You should always develop a zeal within you to learn new things while at work.
This reflects your enthusiasm and your diligence. Don’t let yourself repeat the same mistakes again and again. Learn from yours and also from those which others commit.